Wednesday, August 15, 2007

The so-called life of friendships

You know something has been missing from my life lately. Friendship. Being now divorced and dealing with a woman who wants to be friends is like the consolation prize. Hurray. Anyway, I do need to find some friends to be around. Its ridiculous how some of the friends I have are just too busy. I almost called a friend tonight and then I realized that 9 out 10 times she would be tired or working. You know how depressing it is to speak to someone who is always tired? Lord knows I love her but no one should work that much. We are talking about 15 to 20 hours overtime. Ridiculous. I have another friend who returns calls after about 72 hours. People are just too busy. The truth is people find time for those who are interested in the same things. If you know the person a is a happy hour type person, then meeting them at happy hour is not a problem. Its weird like that. I have been thinking of the friendship I lost about 7 years ago. I was friends with a guy for like twenty plus years and we fell out. I always said that friendships are like batteries, some just last longer than others.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Well...What had happened was...LOL...

Should I tell them the gory details? I guess not. Suffice it to say, me and this dude did "fall out", but, since he like my brother, for real, it was only a matter of time before we fell back in, for real. Some batteries are re-chargeable, bro...I'll holla at you later.